When someone is going through a storm,
your silent presence is more powerful than a million, empty words.
Don't mix bad words with your bad mood. You will have many opportunities to change a mood, but you will never get the opportunity to replace the words you spoke.
We live in an ocean of words, swirling about us from computer screens, book pages, television programs, and whisperings of those we love. Language is everywhere. Sometimes it may seem we're being bombarded by messages, overwhelmed by information.
From this barrage of words, we seek for those that matter most. An encouraging word from a co-worker might be exactly what we need to pull us through a tough day. A heartfelt "thank you" from someone in need can give us a feeling of usefulness at a time when we may be questioning our worth in this world.
Likewise, we can give those needed words to others by choosing words that uplift, show gratitude, and bring joy. Especially among our family members, we can offer words of kindness, words that build—instead of utilitarian words that simply get a job done. Our words can show praise and appreciation for someone's efforts, or for their value as a person.
How wonderful to recall a moment of approval from someone we admire! Also wonderful, is to give genuine admiration to another—a compliment the other person keeps and cherishes all his life.
Such expressions stand out from the sea of other phrases we hear all day. They can warm our spirits, dispel self-doubts, and ignite enthusiasm to continue top performance. Kind words are bright and beautiful and enlarge the soul.
Lloyd D. Newell
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